Not Good Enough - No Such Thing
“What if I’m not good enough?”
How many times have you asked that? How many times has that thought stopped you from pursuing something really important to you? Even if its only once, its far too many.
“What if I’m not good enough?”
You are facing a new endeavor, a challenge of some sort or a making a huge change and those words come across the screen in your mind. You begin to second guess your self and your abilities. You might even begin to change up what you would normally do in a given situation, in efforts to ‘be’ something ‘else’. This is Toxic Operating System gymnastics as you begin to contort yourself into an emotional pretzel trying to be someone you’re not, thinking that would be better than what you have to offer.
Or maybe you just opt out of the opportunity altogether.
Stop!
Here’s a secret.
There’s NO such thing as ‘not good enough’!
That’s right. You heard me. Its a fallacy! ‘Not good enough’ is a product of Toxic Operating System (TOS) sabotage. The part of you that thinks its protecting you by frightening you into staying stagnant.
You are MORE than good enough. In fact, you are here because YOU are exactly what is needed. Its true! The Universe is always conspiring on your behalf so if you are facing something that causes you to hesitate and ask ‘What if I’m not good enough?” remember you are exactly good enough, because the Universe wouldn’t put you there unless you were.
This might sound a little like “God doesn’t give you more than you can handle” but its not the same at all. This other version creates a ‘victim of circumstance’ line of thinking. There simply is no chess playing God who doles out challenges just to see how much suffering you can bear.
The Universe operates by responding to the energy we put out into it. With the exception of a few predetermined events of our choosing programmed into our lives, we create the rest of our life experience, by our attitude and our choices. Therefore, if we are being presented something it is because it is exactly what WE (our higher selves) have decided we need to define ourselves. So you see, there is no way you can ever NOT be good enough. Not ever.
If a relationship, job or situation doesn’t work out the way you intended, it wasn’t because you weren’t good enough, its because you assigned it the wrong value and tried to make it into something it wasn’t meant to be. Step back and see if you can look at that situation with new eyes, what do you think was really being presented to you? Were you contorting yourself, trying to be something you weren’t and hiding your true self?
Go out into the world bold and authentic! Don’t contort yourself into what you think you should be, BE exactly what you are. That’s why you are where you are, to let YOUR inner light shine bright, not imitate someone else’s. YOU have something to offer the situation that NO ONE else ever could. You. YOU!
Show up authentically and you will see that ‘not being good enough’ isn’t even a thing.
Be AmaZING!!!